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Saturday, August 15, 2015

Are you living your life ?

You get your motives achieved when a need arises, similarly, i have always longed to come back to blog my thoughts but kept the time factor as an excuse always, until, the need finally urged me to let it out somewhere.

No matter how much you convince an Atheist, they wouldn't still understand the words from the Bible, the way it should be. Forget the Atheist, being a true believer of the Christ, its so hard to not sin ! Life is short or even shorter if it gets tough but one should remember that behind every success, there is a spiritual reason, and behind every failure, there is a sinful reason. Everyone goes though the same phase of life such as the infant, teenage, Adult, marriage, Parent, Old Age and that is when you finally look back to evaluate your actions in life, how good have you been, how bad have you been and you realize its too late to go back & correct them!

If you question my faith today, i firmly believe that the Bible is the truth & the Big Bang is just a crap. No matter what shoots back on me to get this fact off my mind, its not going to work, whether it is Dr. Zakir Naik's skill of logical reasoning of comparative religion, i'm not taking that kind of $h!t. It's not that i know the Bible well enough to prove what i believe, rather, it is what i have experienced & witnessed in my life which is far beyond proving them to the public. 

When i was just 5 or 6 years old, i had been terribly shaken & scared because my Brother and me were chased by a Dog for some reason which is irrelevant in this context. Being in that state of mind, i had kept the Bible in my shirt when i stepped out of the house next morning to play with my brother with the belief that this should fix the problem. As i stepped out, i saw Jesus up above in the clouds with his right hand raised up as a sign of blessing, saw it around for 5 to 8 seconds. Am i making this up, i really dont care what you think about it, because my strength is that vision. So why is that i have not been able to see that vision again ? i could have just put in the Bible in my shirt again & witnessed it again, it never happened again. I later realized that when you are clean from sins and your faith is strong, you get to see such blessed moments and at the age of 5/6, you are most likely to be innocent & capable to have this moment unlike when you grow up in a sick world. All of us have problems in life, some of them being harsh & some being less harsh, but we blame when we are in the problem & we praise when we are out of the problem. You take time to realize & show your love, Yet, HE still loves you all the time !


My main subject for today is about Late Mr. BM (FIL) who had inspired me in lot many ways. He is a Man who had sacrificed whole his life for the happiness & betterment of others. He never had a decent pay to live an average life, yet, he chose to sacrifice his best possible moments of his life for his family and saved all that hard earned penny. He was unfortunate to spend an average time with his Wife & Daughter but still he marched forward in life facing all these hurdles. He was not lucky enough to see his daughter grow up who had always wished to have spend some good time pampering her but life was tough. He had always wanted to cover that up by spending his rest of his life being with his grandson, play with him, be with him as he grows, wanted to see him as a doctor but fate was still against his wishes. Finally, when he chose to retire from his work life to finally have some family time, Life got tougher again & he was diagnosed with Multiple Organ Failure. We had later realized that he had even neglected his own health during his struggle for others. After a couple of years of medication, he got bedridden, worse & lost in senses. Most importantly, he kept talking to himself loudly during his last week, where he had mentioned that he has seen his late Father along with 2 other people who came along to meet him & had asked him to accompany them which was not much of a distance as per what he had mentioned. However, he kept saying that he wanted to meet his Brother who had not visited him for quite some years. As days passed, his Brother walked into the house & broke down in tears when he realized that he had wasted all the good times that he could have had with his Brother. Later that night, BM walked & accompanied his Dad to the Heaven. This isn't a cooked up fairy tale but something that i had witnessed during his last days. You might have seen the Angel stuffs in fairy tales,however, it is quite unusual when you overhear someone narrate that while in their "subconscious" mind.

Your life isn't just to get born, grow up, get married, have kids, pay your bills, retire, get old & that's it! As my Cousin stated, one's understanding varies from people to people. As long as you are alive, do good as much as possible, rather than thinking our best lives is after death in Heaven. Live a happy life, let the LORD take you forward, lead a tension free life.There is a saying that the fear gets weaker when you move closer to it, and it is only possible if you let the LORD do that for you. 

This is what i believe. Are you living your life ?

GOD Bless !

-Pierre

Friday, January 20, 2012

2009-2011








Thursday, October 09, 2008

Whtz cookin' ??

Bloggin iz fun provided u make it as a part of ur life. I juz realized it when Mizz 'A' told me how interestin it waz to read my posts that too de onez in 2005. Thats when i went back to read my old posts and it really does make ur day so happy when u have all those luvley moments to cherish n especially when one realizes that those memories are neva lost.....


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Juz came back home few minutes back from a game of pool with my frenz. Mom had been repeatedly calling me in between asking me to come back home soon. Her last call made me feel tht shez got frustrated. At de same time, i thot she never took it seriously for me coming late,b4 1 ofcourse,during a weekend. However, she played smart today....n i realized y she wanted me to come early....
When i got back home..parents had gone to sleep...de dinner was kept on table like any other weekend but diz time it was different....it had a note with it too.


It read: " Son(in malayalam but i felt it sarcastic), please put the plates back to the basin and the dishes back in the fridge after having your dinner. And make sure you get up on time to go to church tomorrow morning"
I then realized why she wanted me to come early...aah crap.....: i am sure i will get to see her winning smile on her face when i get up in de morning tomorrow!!!:)
Hmm....Tagging with wed locks......i happened to ask opinions from my frenz on howz it like after marriage:
Mr. **U: " dont ever ask bro, i shouldnt hv got married at de age of of 24....she suspects me at times...cant go out alone for long or elz de call flow starts...."

S**y was happy tht his wife is expecting so he told me tht hez gonna be a father..i could c all tht xcitement in his face..
I then asked him " how is life after marriage,dude??" His smile suddenly faded out...
He: " @#$#ed up buddy....."
I: " why??"
He: " nuthin dude...restrictions n all....."... n v shared a laugh together...a laugh which explained de difference of being a bachelor n being hooked up!! :D

Whenever **u has to join me at de Club Safari pub, he had to alwayz tell his wife that " Peter is goin to Dubai next week for a conference so he needs to purchase a new suit so he needs my help to select a good one...."

N i hv to ask him wht colour of de suite would he be tellin his wife so tht i dont end up sayin de wrong colour to her.... hehe..... aah...i surely do have a lot of suites now....v r running out of colours now....hehe
Men's life after Marriage??? :D

So....wht could be wrong...? do u think itz a matter of Arranged vs Love marriage??

My parents do fight @ times too..oh yea...itz a luv marriage for them too.... n tht too from a college scenario ;) ( Lecturer - Student) ..hehe...

It was surprising for dad n me to see a note on his table last week which was written by mom to dad sumthin in Malayalam ( i cant read dat language)...i went to de Kitchen to ask mom wht it read n she gave me a grin sayin tht it was a message to my dad not to fight over a topic they fight at times, that evening.... ironically....it worked....:) I knew it would work once i saw my dad's smile after reading de note!!!
So all what i am trying to say is Life after Marriage iz all abt mutual understanding.....;) Yea rite...Luk whoz talking...hehe :D
Check out some of de stuffs i came across de internet...hehe


hmm....hez got a point out der.....smart!!! ;)

Mom recieved an ISD call sumtime last week from one of her relative's friend and thtz when he said that therez diz nice proposal from this blah blah blah family.....later that evening....dad n mom was discussing abt it to me....i was like...Not interested...not in my agenda....yawn...hehe...

Now comes de best part:

Mom: " dont u wanna even get married??? if u have someone in ur mind...say it....

Dad(a lil rise in tone): " Let him do whatever he wantz with his life.....(silence for 4 seconds)....(a lil rise +1) atleast tell if u have anyone in your mind...we will fix tht up"

I was like wht de hell....are they trying to get me married or get me slaughtered???hehe :D

Datz with dat.....

Vijay has been doing a real homework on the Cam software on his laptop...check it out.... make sure u watch it with ur headphones switched on or elz u wouldnt enjoy it.... hmm...

Ok frenz...there has been this controversy among my colleagues who has been eating my head....its some latest movie in Tamil n they are trying to prove that thiz guy resembles me....all i wanna say is that : "ITS NOT MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE...:((...he doesnt even look like MEE..!!!!"..Check out de movie banner anyway but keep it to yourself plz!!!!

Okiez...now datz a long post...me off 4 a nap...b4 i end..take diz..;)

Sumthin 4 u 2 :)

There was this lover who said that he would go through hell for her.

They got married, and now he is going through hell....

Friday, August 01, 2008

BreakThrough!!!! :)



Frankly speaking, diz come back has been tuffer than i had thot especially in uploading diz .fla dat u c above with Blogspot....Thnx 2 Anz for her Polish high speed FREE internet according 2 her!!!:) "Beg ur pardon?? Did i hear whoz Anz??" .... Can i talk abt my comeback for this time plz??!! :)

Itz surely a nice feeling to be a blogger again....:)

Lifez been movin really fast after readin my last blog. Most of which had been updated in my diary when i had been on my annual leave to B'lore. Quick look on whtz been happenin....


> I am still with Oriental Oryx Intl. LLC as an IT consultant / 'll complete 2 years in spetmeber. Hope my Boss increases my salary in September..:(
> My first leave to India was really sumthin tht i had been looking forward and itz been one of de finest trip of happiness i wud ever had as of today. Thnx 2 Teenz a TON!! Exactly...itz de same Teenz...i still hv her!!! :)
> Bro shifted to a US firm named Weatherford in Saudi....eeks i know....Saudi sounds so boring rite??!!! hmm.... wht 2 do.... sumtimes Life doest give u much options at times...
> I havent put on weight still :( n i know tht u aint surprised either...hehe...
> Lifes getting pretty much settled down in Muscat....
> Parents had been on a health check tour to India for a month n a half.... had a tuf time running de house alone...but was worth n xperience....
> Had organised ISM g2g ....turned out to be a success.
> Kroopz gettin married!!! :)

Kroopa: "Hello people,
Just wanted to let you guys know that Kaushal and I are tying the knot on December 7 this year in India."


Had 2 update this coz of Keshi :P

>Talkin abt marriage, Mom is juz eating MY HEAD with dat topic!!!! :(

Keshi, Got de Answer??!! ;) Thnx newayz!! :)


Tuf Times:

Hmm...... oh yea...de food poisoning de day after my parents left 2 India....hmm...datz logical..isnt it...hehe...


Whtz in store?? hmm....commitments??!! yez i do..... hmm..got GRE runnin thru my head...gettin settled on de other side of de head....being SINGLE on de other hand...

Talking abt Marriage...had been thinkin a lil too much on it ...especially on Life after doom...hehe..kiddin...;) n ironically pro-active for some time.....

I happened to go thru this article once.... itz worth a thought.....

Pre-Requisites to getting married:

Before any man gets hitched, ties the knot and settles down, there are a few things and man should be, do or have before he does so. These “pre requisites”, in various forms, can be found throughout the earliest societies on earth.

1. Be an island unto yourself
This means basically to be able to be independent in all important areas, such as financially, emotionally and even sexually. Stated the opposite way, “do not “NEED” your woman in any way”. This does not ELIMINATE the possibility of having a wife who works while you stay home with the children and other similar arrangements, but again, it’s more of a “where are you at” situation. If you’re feeling resentful or competitive with your “financially superior” wife, then you are NOT and island unto yourself. This is really about “needs” and “neediness”.

2.Be clear about the reasons you are getting married.
There are really only TWO reasons for a MAN to get married. These are the only reasons that are not “fear based” or “needy”, like being alone, companionship, etc. They are “To be a mother to your children”, and “The unconditional acceptance and love of a woman”. The first is pretty simple. You need someone to raise your children, nurture them, be an expert at the art of “relationship”, which you are not. The second is a bit more esoteric, but just as powerful. When you have a woman by your side who adores and worships you, it gives you strength and power and desire to be MORE. The best marriages I’ve seen have partners who make each other want to be better husbands and wives. This is the concept here. When a woman treats his man with respect and gushes over him and adores him and makes him feel like a million bucks waiting for change, he’ll want to go out and MAKE a million bucks and not even wait for the change!!! Treating a man like he’s always coming up a little short usually leads to a man who does just that. Comes up a little short. Why try harder with a woman you can’t please? I’ve had both situations and I’m with a woman now who worships the ground I walk on and I gotta tell you, I can’t be stopped!!

3. Know what you’re getting into!
Does this woman fit in with who you are as a man? Is it actually going to IMPROVE your life? Are you compromising anything about yourself to get into the marriage? It should be BETTER to be in the marriage than NOT be in the marriage. Will this woman surrender and trust you or will she fight you every inch of the way? Do you find yourself “explaining” or “defending” her alot? I know a musician friend of mine who has a whole litany and story about the reasons his wife is so miserable. It’s amazing, and you know right away it’s not the first time he’s recited it. He’s also a GREAT man for doing this, now that he’s married and has 2 little boys. He’s surrendered to the situation he’s in and he’s committed. KNOW who you are and the kind of woman you want to be with. Don’t get side tracked by great sex or movie star looks.



Okiez, now tht i hv made de honour to be back as a blogger...me will keep u posted with interesting topics....n nteresting characters ;)

Gt 2 hit de pillowz coz tomm is Saturday n tht means back to work!!!! : Need 2 wake up early....


Quote 4 de Day:

Getting married is like permanently grafting your hand to the cookie jar.
No matter how sweet those cookies may taste, you can't help but wonder
what would have happened if you'd chosen some other dessert--brownies,
for instance ... or frozen yogurt ... or maybe chocolate strudel.

-JEROME P. CRABB (Dont ask me...i dont know him either!!! hehe)

Friday, March 30, 2007

De 4 Liquid Stages of Life!!!



*Sigh* How True!!!! :D

Friday, February 09, 2007

Which Candy Heart are YOU?? - Valentine Special

What is it about candy hearts? Sure, they're sweet to eat, but it's their simple messages of love that really melt in your mouth. Want to know what this year's candy hearts say about you and your romantic future? Take the test.........B4 dat....wanted to know my Candy heart??it was dis one:

                  Hmm......Check out your CANDY HEART NOW ;)

Thursday, January 25, 2007

INDIA Rockz!!!!

Dudez..... Now diz is one of de speech our buddy had given in Hydrebad!!! Itz worth reading it and itz worth thinking abt it and itz even more worth working on them!!!!

                                       

Coz Dr APJ Abdul Kalam was right in all possible senses in each n every sentence of his speech!!!!He'z got a POINT out der!!!

here it goez!!!

Why is the media here so negative?

Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements? We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse to acknowledge them. Why?

We are the first in milk production.

We are number one in Remote sensing satellites.

We are the second largest producer of wheat.

We are the second largest producer of rice.

Look at Dr. Sudarshan , he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit. There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters.

I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But he front page of the newspaper had the picture of a Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.

In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime. Why are we so NEGATIVE?

Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things? We want foreign T. Vs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology.

Why this obsession with everything imported. Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance?

I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture, when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is. She replied: I want to live in a
developed India . For her, you and I will have to build this developed India . You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation. Do you have 10 minutes?

Allow me to come back with a vengeance.

YOU say that our government is inefficient.

YOU say that our laws are too old.

YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage.

YOU say that the phones don't work, the railways are a joke,

The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination.

YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits.

YOU say, say and say. What do YOU do about it?

Take a person on his way to Singapore . Give him a name - YOURS.

Give him a face - YOURS. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best.

In Singapore you don't throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity...

In Singapore you don't say anything, DO YOU? YOU wouldn't dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai . YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah.

YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds ( Rs.650) a month to, 'see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else.'YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop, 'Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so's son.

Take your two bucks and get lost.' YOU wouldn't chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New Zealand .

Why don't YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo ? Why don't YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston ??? We are still talking of the same YOU. YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground.

If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India ?

Once in an interview, the famous Ex-municipal commissioner of Bombay , Mr. Tinaikar , had a point to make. 'Rich people's dogs are walked on the streets to leave their affluent droppings all over the place,' he
said. 'And then the same people turn around to criticize and blame the authorities for inefficiency and dirty pavements. What do they expect the officers to do? Go down with a broom every time their dog feels the pressure in his bowels?

In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan . Will the Indian citizen do that here?' He's right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility. We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative.

We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage
all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin. We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms.

We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity.

This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public. When it comes to burning social issues like those related to women, dowry, girl child! and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse?

'It's the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons' rights to a dowry.' So who's going to change the system?

What does a system consist of ? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU. When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr.Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away.



//this is too good!!!!!//

Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money.

Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a great deal of introspection and pricks one's conscience too.... I am echoing J. F. Kennedy 's words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians.....

'ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA

AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA

WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY'

Lets do what India needs from us.



Thank you,

Dr. Abdul Kalam


Having second thoughts now??? INDIA indeed rocks,rite?? ;-)